How Long Does It Take To Get Your Ex Back?
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Beautiful people of YouTube, welcome to my latest and greatest video… I’m Breakup Brad, and today I’ll be talking about how LONG it typically takes to win back your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend… now of course, this is something that’s going to vary a lot depending on the details of your breakup, but that’s something I’ll be covering shortly, so stay tuned!
*** Blog post version: https://www.lovelearnings.com/breakups/how-long-does-it-take-to-get-your-ex-back
Scenario #1 — your breakup was recent, within the last 30 days or so, and you’ve done everything I teach in my Ex Factor program and here on YouTube from day 1.
Essentially, this means you’ve done all the right stuff to help re-attract your ex, and haven’t made any major mistakes.
In this type of situation, which isn’t very common unless you’re smart enough to find my YouTube channel and register for The Ex Factor Guide right after breaking up, the outlook is usually very positive. If this does sound fairly similar to your current situation, then you clearly have a good chance at getting your ex back, and that is likely going to happen fairly quickly.
Now there’s no guarantee that you’ll succeed in starting over with your ex regardless of how well you handle things after the breakup, but typically in these type of situations you can expect to have your ex back within 6 weeks or so. In other words, within a couple of weeks after you finish the 30 day No Contact period.
Scenario #2 — it’s been 2-4 months since your initial breakup, and you have been following my advice closely for the past month or so. In other words, you fumbled around a bit for a while after the breakup, maybe made a few mistakes…. And now you’ve put an end to any unproductive or possibly even harmful behaviours, and started applying No Contact or already finished the full 30 days.
In a situation like this — assuming you and your ex were serious, and together for at least 6 or 8 months, or more — then you’re probably going to be able to turn the ship around within 4-6 weeks, assuming you do exactly what I recommend in my Ex Factor program and don’t cave in and make a mistake that can set you back weeks or months.
As you all probably know from watching my other videos, the key to winning back your ex is to completely reverse their mindset. Remember, the day he or she dumped you, they saw you as a “low-value” romantic partner and felt the logical thing to do was to move on and try to find someone “better”. You CAN change their mind using the psychological tactics I teach, and in doing so you’ll basically be re-setting their feelings about you and your value generally.
Scenario #3 — it’s been 3-6 months since the breakup, and you’ve made a number of serious mistakes since breaking up or your ex was very upset and angry at you when you first broke up.
This could be a situation where you’ve made some significant mistakes already that you know have hurt your chances… things like repeatedly begging, pleading your ex, or even bringing out your inner psycho and showed up at their house randomly or sent drunk texts gushing your heart out….
Or it could be that you just completely ignored my advice and failed to employ No Contact at all for months after being dumped, and now you’re suddenly starting to wake up and get things right in hopes it’s not too late to fix things with your ex.
Scenario #4 — it’s either been a year or longer since the original breakup, OR it’s been 6-12 months but you’ve made numerous major mistakes during that time.
Scenario #5 — your ex has re-married, your ex has gone to court and taken out a restraining order against you, or your ex has passed away.
If that describes your situation, you’re F****ed.
Feel free as well to leave any quick questions or hatemail in the comments below so I can get back to you personally.
That’s a wrap for this video ladies and gentlemen, thanks for your ongoing support…. And see you again in my next video!
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