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Alright, a lot of people have been contacting me to create some videos or articles on getting your ex back. So I thought I would deliver the goods in this video. Some of you might have already seen my more in depth video on how to get you ex back. But, today, I have a video solely devoted to texting your ex back. I’m going to outline a few text messages to send to your ex-girlfriend to win her back. So let’s get started.
Before we get started, if you have any questions, please leave them in the comments section below, and I’ll be sure to get back to you, personally, as soon as I can.
Okay, so first of all let’s cover some things to avoid when texting your ex. First, avoid texting her right after the breakup. Give her and yourself some room to breathe. Don’t blow up her phone with sappy messages saying how much you miss her or beg her to take you back! Avoid sending her mean messages telling her that you never loved her anyways or that she isn’t all that pretty and that you prefer your ex before her. This is just adding fuel to the fire and will make getting back together that much more difficult.
Avoid the how’s it going text. You know, “Hey, how have you been?” text. That’s a dull and forgettable message that she will probably skim over and one that warrants a one word answer. In order to get your ex back, you need to excite her again. You need to create that feeling that if she doesn’t hear from you soon, she will scream, if not cry!
The next thing to cover is when to text your ex and that is ideally after you have completed a one month period of no contact. The rule of absence.
What is the rule of absence? I’m glad you asked. I’ll briefly outline it for you. The rule of absence is to become absent in your ex’s life for a period of about a month or so where you have zero contact with your ex. That means no phone calls, no texting, no emailing, no sliding into her dms, no matching with her on Tinder, no liking her Instagram pictures, no watching her Snap Chat stories, no commenting on her Facebook pictures or connecting through Facebook messenger.
This is important because it gives your ex space to miss you and to heal from the breakup, and it also lets you get some clarity on the situation for yourself. You know that saying, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” The rule of absence allows your ex to romanticize your past relationship and have more positive, happier thoughts on the matter. Not ones of resentment or sorrow. This gives you each time to heal any wounds that your breakup caused.
It’s important to have a clear goal in mind and work towards that. Do not get side tracked or take short cuts! They will work against you and all your hard work. And your goal is not to talk to her for a month, which might drive her crazy, but, in the end, that will create an anticipation in her to want to hear from you.
The best time to start texting your ex back is after the no contact period when enough time has passed that your…
Here are the 5, important pieces of relationship advice for men that are discussed in this video:
1. Creating a relationship dynamic based on the fear of getting dumped, usually leads to it happening.
2. Putting way more effort into the relationship than a woman does, isn’t the way to get her to fall more and more in love with you.
3. Relationships are not hard work.
4. Turning sex into something that you’re getting from her, gradually makes her stop wanting it.
5. Being emotionally fearless in a relationship will give you far greater rewards than being emotionally guarded.
With #2, sometimes a guy will make the mistake of putting in more effort into the relationship than his woman, in the hope of making her love him the way she used to in the beginning.
Yet, that’s not the way to do it.
Women will rarely admit this if you ask them, but the best way to make a woman fall more and more in love with you over time, is to bring out her good girl side in the relationship and keep it alive.
This means bringing out the side of her that always wants to treat you well, be affectionate, be attentive, loving and supportive.
On the other hand, if you bring out a woman’s bad side and allow her to get away with treating you badly, then neither of you will really like who she becomes in the relationship.
From your perspective, she may slowly become a woman that you used to love and appreciate, but not anymore.
You might feel like you resent and even hate her at times, especially if you’ve been such a good man to her and she is gradually putting less and less effort into making you feel appreciated or loved in the ways that are important to you.
Think about the couples that you’ve seen where the woman is affectionate, loving and respectful towards her man and you will realize that the man isn’t making the mistake of putting in loads more effort into the relationship than her to hopefully make her happy.
Instead, he is a good man and treats her well, but more importantly, he gets her to treat him well and feel lucky to have a man like him.
She knows how difficult it would be to find a man like him who can bring her good girl side out and keep it alive and well in the relationship.
As a result, she loves him more than she has ever loved anyone else in her life and treats him like he is the one for her.
Unfortunately, so many men out there don’t ever get to experience that kind of love because they are unable to keep a woman’s good girl side alive and well in the relationship.
No matter how much he does for her, it’s never enough and it never brings back the love she used to have for him because he is going about it in the wrong way (i.e. he’s trying to get her to love him based on what he does for her).
Soon enough though, a break up happens and more often than not, it’s the woman who initiates it.
After every good deed the guy has done for her, the guy might then feel shocked that she wants to leave him and may even end up feeling bitter and angry when he notices that she moves on without him.
It’s a horrible experience for a man to go through, especially when he is a good man and had good intentions with her all along.
Yet, the reality is that she didn’t break up with him because he was a good man.
In most cases, a woman will break up with a guy because just wasn’t able to bring out her good girl side and keep it alive and well, so things gradually began to fall apart.
The guy could have turned the relationship dynamic around and made her treat him better and be social much more loving, affectionate and attentive than she ever was, but he didn’t know how to do that, so he lost her.
He also didn’t ever get to experience the higher levels of love that happen after years of being together where the love is growing.
To get to that amazing place in a relationship, you have to bring out her good girl side and keep it alive.
My approach to relationships (that I’ve been using with my wife for the last 6 years) is about bringing the best out of a woman, so she treats you with the love, respect and affection that you deserve.
When you approach your relationship in that way, you will see a completely new side of your woman and more importantly, she will keep getting better and better over time.
That’s what I’ve been experiencing with my wife and what men from all over the world who have used my approach, have been experiencing with their woman.
You can do it too.
It really is possible to turn things around in your relationship and enjoy an amazing relationship with her from now on.
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Okay, so in this video I’m going to cover the top 9 psychological tactics to make your ex wish that they never broke up with you. It’s taken me years and years of research to actually come up with a solid list like this, so PAY ATTENTION because this might be one of the most important videos that you’ll ever watch on this topic.
So let’s just jump right into it!
“Sneaky” tip number one… use the law of pre-selection to your advantage.
Have you ever heard of pre-selection? I’ve talked about this concept a few times in some older videos, but it’s an important psychological trick that you should be employing as soon as possible. And make a mental note, because this works even if you’re single and you’re looking for a potential partner… so in the event that you don’t want your ex back, keep this tip in the back of your mind.
Okay, sneaky tactic number 2… cause massive amounts of “FOMO” inside your ex’s mind.
Ever heard of FOMO? It’s an acronym for “Fear of Missing Out”. And it’s a pretty powerful psychological phenomenon in this day and age. Ever see pictures on your friend’s Instagram of an amazing party or crazy travelling adventure? Ever get that feeling that you just NEED to join them? The next time they ask you out for an adventure, chances are you’re going to say yes because you’ll have a “Fear of Missing Out” on the experience!
Alright, sneaky tip #3… use jealousy to your advantage!
I know, this one is a bit manipulative, but using jealousy is one of the most effective ways to get your ex back. In my program, The Ex Factor Guide, I share dozens of jealousy-inducing tips that are guaranteed to make your ex want to come crawling back to you in no time. But today, I’m only going to cover one ESPECIALLY useful tactic… and I call it the “Jealousy Text”.
Now, before you send this text, I have to warn you that you can’t simply send this text out of the blue and expect it to work. There is a certain time and place that’s appropriate to send this text… and if you send this text at the WRONG time, you could be sabotaging your chances of getting back together with them. If you’ve been watching my videos here on YouTube, then you know that the No Contact rule is extremely important…
Sneaky tip #5… use “reverse psychology” on your ex.
So for example, you could say something to your ex along the lines of…
“You know what, I think it’s good that we broke up… I think we really needed this time apart.”
Sneaky tip #6 – refuse your ex sometimes and learn to say no.
Again, for this to work, you need to be on talking-terms with your ex. For more on how to get to that stage, subscribe to my channel and be sure to watch all the other videos on how to open the lines of communication with him or her.
Which brings me to my next sneaky, psychological trick…
Number 8… always appear positive and happy.
The WORST thing someone can do after a breakup is to start moping and crying in front of everyone they know… and it’s especially annoying if they talk about it on social media. Don’t be one of those people. Not only is it incredibly annoying to people, but it’s also incredibly unattractive to your ex!
And finally, sneaky psychological tip #9… take my free quiz tool on my website.
So if you’re curious about what that quiz might say about YOUR current situation, just head on over to BreakupBrad.com/quiz and take that free quiz.
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3. Make her want you back, by attracting her in a new, more interesting ways.
4. Let her feel like she is in control.
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Many guys fail to get their ex woman back because they allow her to be in the power position. She is in control of the ex back process and as a result, she is being stubborn.
You need to regain power and control, so you can then lead her back into a relationship with you.
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